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14 Pros and Cons of Online Dating | Everything You Need To Know!

Online dating can definitely be a mixed bag of different experiences! On the one hand, you hear crazy stories of stalkers and psychos; while on the other, you probably personally know several couples who have met and even gotten married after meeting on a dating site!

 

So, what exactly is there to gain and lose from online dating?

 

Let’s first take a look at the CONS, so we can end on a positive note. 😉

 

  1. You Have To Get Used To Rejection

Truth: It doesn’t matter who you are, everybody gets rejected or neglected from time to time online!

 

Solution? Try sticking to people in your “league,” based on their looks, age, occupation, and location. This will significantly increase your chances of dating success. And remember, never invest yourself into anything or anyone until you’ve actually met in real life. The hottie online is often a nottie in person!

 

  1. Straight Up Weirdos

You’re never quite reminded of the sheer oddity of humans as you are when you’re chatting around on an online dating site. People often say weird things, and make strange requests… 

 

Solution? You can only expect it. Practice safety as much as you can, and remind yourself that you only have to find one good one in order for it to all be worth it.

 

  1. People Look or Act Different in Real-Life

Luckily, most dating sites these days have special security and verification methods in place which endeavour to solve these kinds of issues.

 

Solution? In general, though, just keep your expectations in check. Assume absolutely nothing from people before you’ve actually met up with them in person. 

 

  1. It Takes Time and Can Be Quite Overwhelming

Online dating can be really time-consuming. At first, it may sound fun to shop around for new dates; but then your eyes start to feel fuzzy and you realise that everyone sounds the same, and you’re not quite sure if you like any of them…

 

Solution? Hold yourself back a bit. Remember, anything in moderation is okay. You just don’t want to crash and burn out.

 

  1. Too Many Options

The paradox of choice teaches us that the more options we have, the unhappier we are, and the more paralysed we become to choose! 😱 It can be overwhelming and stressful. You’ll often wonder if you went on a date with the right person. 

 

Solution? Try to slow things down a bit. There are tons of people online, and some dates will inevitably be better than others. Try to frame things as though you’re just meeting up with people in order to know if they come in as a good second — not for marriage status.

 

  1. Being Contacted By People You’re Not Interested in

Join the club! This is something that cannot be stopped. It’s inevitable.

 

Solution? Take a look at all the different options on the site that you’re using. They often have tools which can help you filter, block, or report unsolicited behaviour.

 

  1. People Who Don’t Know How To Date Online

These are the kinds of boring people who don’t write anything interesting, their photos are shocking, and they just generally don’t know how to communicate well. Have you ever experienced this kind of frustration on Tinder or the likes?

 

Solution? There’s honestly not much you can do here except to reach out and suggest some helpful tips to them if you feel compelled. Just remember it’s always part of the deal. 

 

Still, there are tons of PROS to online dating:

 

  1. You Can Be Sure of What People Are Looking For from the Get-Go

There are no guessing games here. Whether you’re looking for a fellow singles community like at Match.com, or you’re interested in the questionable world of married and attached dating like at VictoriaMilan — you’ll always be clear on what you’re going into. Now that’s pretty valuable intel. 

 

  1. You’re Introduced To All Different Types of People

It often turns out that your date didn’t offer a true love connection — but you might have gained a new doctor or attorney for life!

 

  1. There Are So Many Choices

There are heaps of people to choose from online. No single other avenue gives you access to more “available” love-seekers.

 

  1. You Can Date from Home and from Your Phone

Convenience defined. Need we say more?

 

  1. You’ll Always Have A Story To Tell

You’ll never run out of things to talk about at parties as you’ll always have interesting stories from your past dates. 

 

  1. You Can Get A General Idea of What People Are About

This could be anything from religion to politics to family values — whatever it is, the important details are clearly laid out for you.

 

  1. You Know There’s Someone Out There Like You

You know you’re special, and you’re scouting online; so it’s highly likely that your ideal counterpart is doing the same. Online dating just provides you with a convenient platform to help you find them! 

 

At the end of the day, if you view online dating as a way to introduce yourself to people you may not have otherwise met, it’ll always turn out to be something beneficial! The moment you start expecting it to present you with your perfect dream person — you’ll be let down. Mindset is undoubtedly everything!

Sigurd Henrik Vedal is an American-Norwegian entrepreneur; investor; e-commerce- and social media specialist; life, business and relationship coach; and public speaker.

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